Wednesday, April 20, 2011

How I realized that Rudefinder.com was B.S.

    1. I'm about to tell a tale of schemers who profit off the loneliness of men and women everywhere called Rudefinder.com! I recently just for access to some not so innocent web cam and pics paid a nominal fee of  $17.89 to Rudefinder.com. Needless to say certain things began to register on my "this isn't rite"meter fairly quick.The first thing that caught my attention was the fact that being from a very small town I recognized not one person and the fact that we have a very very small African American population yet there were quite the few on this site.Next came the curious little detail of never having a profile view until after I viewed that particular persons profile!    
    2. After quite a few photo views and noticing these women were too perfect I started looking deeper into the bigger picture.Well low and behold I immediately noticed that quite a few of the women were in similar poses,using the same camera as a prop and the rooms,i.e. bathroom,living room and kitchen were identical leading me to the more than obvious conclusion that,well,they are models and nothing more,nothing less.
    3. The next little clue was certain descriptive terms being used.What American does anyone know that uses the term"wanker"to basically call   their ex a loser,jerk,etc..? Not me!There were other words but unfortunately they escape me at this present moment.
    4. No matter how many times I would get an e-mail or send one,the conversation never got past a few brief, and frankly boring as all get out, conversations. Then the errors in info and what not came.I had one girl say she was living in FLA. and the text on her profile said Texas but wait,it gets better,she says i read your profile and your perfect,I'm  god fearing ,loyal,want to settle down with kids and being that I'm very cold rite now(cold in Fla? happens but not that extreme) and mind you all the while my info was blank and before that it asked for a "no strings" fling period! So with all that combined with the one girl previous misspelling and whatnot so bad you could tell she was of eastern European decent or somewhere there abouts(Russian maybe) ! 
    5. So with everything sum and total I have not only cancelled  my subscription ,which was a task in itself,taking five e-mails before getting forceful in tone,to get that accomplished,I also asked that my money be refunded and profile completely wiped out or i would make it my mission to expose them as best as possible,which led to type my first blog at 33yrs old! Long story short instead of getting"lucky"i learned a new skill and hopefully can at the least save a lot of people money and on the extreme end i will try my hardest to shut them down!There in lays the big issue is the parent company who owns Rude finder .com not only owns many more such sites but will just change the name and cary on.
    6. Next project is to find out as many of the parent companies holdings as possible and expose them for what they are,a con-artist con-artist,scheisters of a magnitude only rivaled in our own government but Englishmen,even worse I say!                                                                                                                                              Thank you for taking the time to read this and please spread the word around!                                                           

41 comments:

  1. I just want to add a comment about when I wrote there are very few African Americans in this small town but many on the site I meant that those listed as from my small town and also for the record please no one start their "you are a racists" crap and what not.Could'nt be further from the truth.Thank you again

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    1. Mate me joined the site but has never sent them a dime, me is just hoping me can get all me information off the site.

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  2. Great info bro! Thanks for taking the time to post this. BTW, I'm African American and by no way did you come off as racist.

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  3. I agree with everything you said about rudefinder. I been on it for a month and I noticed alot of issues with this site. Awful lot of high school/college age girls on there posing right? They must promise them extra money for every guy they could sucker onto their site. And the limited conversations? I don't even want to get into that. Make a long story short any sites that promise you hot sex on a platter is more than likely a scam. Thanks for the opportunity to vent on this subject.

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  4. CHeers i have been on it 1 day and realised it was a scam i should of googled it first

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  5. I agree rudefinder promised me a refund and then charged me another month. It looks like I will have to cancel my credit card. I first noticed the scam when almost all the woman were sucking the same cock. No shit. I couldn't understand what turned out to be a make believe town had more horny women per capita then any where in the world. The town didn't even exist. When you want to file a class action law suit I will join in.

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  6. I had added it for 1 day and I called my bank and cancelled the transaction. I have emailed rudefinder and told them to not charge me ever again. Also I have asked the bank if cancelling my card would help. They said that since they already have your info now, any new card would be somehow linked to it. What should I do guys..? I am soo angry about the whole situation

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  7. My husband and I found an unusual transaction on his bank account. After doing numerous amounts of research I found the phone number for the company. I spoke with a British guy who confirmed the information but could not give me any more info unless my husband called. I managed to log into the account and found a pic of my husband and info that matched him. The thing that seemed odd was all the e-mails sent to the girls on the site used correct spelling and grammar. My husband is not a good speller and certainly does not use correct grammar. He swears up and down that he never signed up for this site and the more I read reviews about the site, the more I believe him. Could a hacker get into his computer and set up a fake account with this bogus site? This is crazy. My gut feeling tells me that my husband is telling the truth and I have locked all of our bank account info. However there is still have speck of doubt in the back of my mind. Do hackers now specialize in breaking up marriages lol

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  8. Scam scam scam.... I just want my money back asap. These girls keep trying to get me to spend more money no way. We should start a case on these guys. Lets do it.

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  9. I agree with everything here... the blog poster nailed it, this and other dating sites are all the same.
    I tried the ultimate test... created one profile for where I live and found my "matches."
    Created another profile for me in a different city/state... wouldn't you know.... the SAME girls now live 20 miles from me!!!!!
    BSBSBS!

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  10. I too got an email from some unidentified sender that led me to this site but I googled it! And most of the searches said it was a scam a d I doesn't even exits on wikipedia!

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  11. i know that people have probably noticed this too. when you cancel your credit card the notices on your account seem to triple..? and right when i first started someone tried to convince me to sign on to a dozen different cam sites. and i lied about most of them and they somehow seem to know when you lie because when i said that i completed.. i get a response that said. "are you sure that you completed it? did you buy the credits to view?" when i said "yeah" [lie] the emails stopped. lol it's too funny. then the ones that have the email on their account. the funnier ones. i made up a fake yahoo account and tried something, posted my email on the site and i got 14 friend requests. guess how many asked me to sign up for the same websites XD

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  12. You guys are all a bunch ou fucking idiots if you think any of those websites aren't going to have scammers on them then you deserve to get fucked over, how can people not see sex sites are for visual appeal and sexual stimulation not meeting real people. ( mind you there are some real people on there though) well I guess even stupid people get horny even eh lol ( yes I'm laughing at you guys) ha ha ha

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  13. so me n my fiancee saw a post for a free ps3 on craigslist.org 2 good 2b true we know but went 4 it any way so this guy emails us saying its available and asks us a favor he wants us 2 help him with his "web design" so we get not 1 but 2 links leading 2 rudefinder he said if we signed up he could see what needed to be fixed lmao thats the biggest load of crap ive ever gotten suffice to say dude and "his site" have been reported on a federal level added in the report was a link to our bing search with hundreds of thousands of links to posts like urs hope this puts a vengefull smile on ur face

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  14. Here, here, I'm from England the penny dropped within the first hr of being on there! 90% are fakes and on line 24/7. I think the profiles are all made up and are all linked to sub contracts working for the site in some way?...a few years ago I knew this woman who was being paid to just answer anything on a mobile phone with messages from guys! She was getting loads within a hr ....this is why they never answer right away! I'm stuck with the site for a year....I paid £83 for 12 months of piss take from a great Height lol....I'm just utterly rude to them their prob kick me off soon. Wished I looked the site up first but it was a app in Facebook! So that's how I found it...be careful peeps....

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  15. hi
    i'm the same as he is i'm from england it seems there are too perfect women in the town i am and other day one got on facebook that proved it was a con after she asked me to vote for her on another site i've paid 17.50 or summut for 1 month i want out but i dont want all the trouble got enough on my plate

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  16. man this is surely one evil scam preying on lonely men, like me, yes i paid but fortunately got a refund. beware

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  17. Here was my message to rudefinder.com

    A lot of the responses I am getting just do not make sense given the general parlance of the site. The responses I am getting sound like June and Ward Cleaver type of dialogue. That is totally bullshit when one considers the whole idea of a site like this. And no, it isn't me. I have been on other sites in the past and had dates almost immediately, and I will be returning to them because they did work. I test out a lot of dating sites, and I have to say this one is the worst. At best you are leading people on so they will keep spending money. The only thing this site is good for is e-whoring and suckering dumb fucks out of their money.

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  18. This site is a total SCAM!! I got a account with them like month ago and notice right off the bat that something was wrong with this site. The first night I got it, I had to verify my account over the phone it took them like 30 mins to answer the phone and then when they did finally answer the man who answered sounded like he just woke up and he wasn't even American. I have had nothing but trouble with Rude Finder since then. The people on there are so fake and will not talk to you when you message them or you will receive a message from someone and answer back and never get one back. I have also noticed that I am getting message from myself on there as well. It has my pic of myself ,but a message from someone else which sounds like to me I have been hacked. I have sent many emails to them through customer service and no response from them. I am afraid to cancel right now because, I don't know whats going on with my account. Your info is also stored on your page with card number I didn't realize until yesterday. BUT, I CAN SAY THIS THEY HAD NO PROBLEM TAKING MY MONEY OUT TODAY FOR THIS BULL SHIT SITE. Please don't fall for this site it is a total scam!!!!!

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  19. Let's hit them with a DDoS attack. Go here for info: HivemindLOIC
    Use the Hivemind RSS feature, or IRC if you are familiar. RSS is easier.

    Let's take these motherfuckers down!

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  20. Update! I just made it easier for all of us and anyone else who wants to attack rudefinder.com. I have set up a new blog with an embedded attacker. No download needed! Goto: KillRudeFinderDotCom See our Attack Rudefinder with JS LOIC page. Once there click the big button in Step 2, and sit back and relax. If all of us do this at the same time, we can crach the rudefinder.com site.

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  21. they also try to get members to sign up for
    http://www.citysex.com

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  22. Good finding this out. This has to be a overseas scam run by some fucking Brits! In the profiles for weight I see "kg." instead of "lb." Yet, all of the women are within five(5)of my location which makes me want to try it. What has me worried about this entire thing is my card. They get a hold of my account, they could drain me dry. I propose to buy a debit card, get the membership and then see if they will siphon money from that account. I really want to see how similar the emails and the backgrounds are. Thanks

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  23. I agree with everyone here. Rudefinder is a piece of shit scam site. I laid low on the site for like three months and then they sent me this "special lifetime offer" and of course I fell for it. They got me for like 80 bucks. None of the girls really talk to you they just send some bullshit message to you every once in a great while. And then when you try to reply to it your just ignored. All the pictures that are taken are with the same camera like Marc said. I've also seen pictures of professional porn chicks on there and when I called them out on it I got no response. I with I would have researched this site before throwing my money away. DON'T GET SUCKERED INTO THIS BULLSHIT SITE IT"S A HUGE SCAM.

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  24. yeah, robotically driven texts and messages from non-existant woman.

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  25. I love how they are already tryin to talk to uo as soon as you start the free account sending you several messages from fine ass bitches tryin to sucker you into paying so you can message them back. I got a bad feeling instantly about it. I hadn't even had time to creat a profile or upload a pic and I got a message like I see your new cuz you don't have a pic or a profile set up and that they want to talk to you... if you don't know shit about me or even what I look like then why do you want to talk to me so bad...? I ain't lame to tha game so I just started lookin into in and within a few min I find this blog! And I like your idea of settin up two profile sayin your from diffent places. Good stuff. I feel for all y'all that got suckered into this stupid site. I was listenin to Pandora internet radio when an app for it popped up. Them people sorry as hell.

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  26. Buy a giftcard and use it anytime you join a site. That way they can't keep taking from your bank account. Using a P.O. box helps keep your information secure also. They won't know your real address and you can register as in another city. If the site proves legit you can always change your info later.

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  27. Different email addresses will also help. That way they can't access your business or friends contacts.

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  28. Any site that has adverts that say: "Too many hot girls, guys join for free" is kind of suspicious if you ask me.

    Basic rule of thumb guys, if it seems to good to be true, it is! Use your brains come on.

    If it's flesh and blood companionship you want, do some research and join one of the mainstream dating sites, if it's more no-strings attached sex that you don't have to pay for, visit a free porn site or good luck dodging all the scam sites that have been set up as a trap for just that situation.

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  29. So i admittedly fell for this bullshot, however the author of this blog should look at http://www.scamadviser.com/is-Overnightlover.com-safe.html

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  30. I set up a few profiles reflecting "fake users" from around the country. Then I bounced the url's from the girls I interacted with (from my area, in my real account) into the other "fake" accounts. The girls that lived in my area still (even though the fake account was from another state) turned out to be real users doing the same thing I was.

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  31. It was funny seeing the "fake"girls from my neighborhood living in states all over the country. It almost broke my heart to see those pretend girls go. :"(

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  32. Well fellas what are we going to do about this .. ive been had as well . I'm so angry I wanna choke one of thoes whores !!! Lol.. long story short looks like ima gonna be "wanking" for longer than I thought..lol..

    To the fella who wrote this blog , thanks for having a set of balls bro.. We need to start operation smackahoe!! These people need to be delt with accordingly! I will check this blog tomorrow. . Have a good one bro..

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  33. how did you unsubscribe from rudefinder because i am having trouble doing that?

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  34. Im want tell your l met this woman name Mary Parker. We have not met but, we text about 7 weeks. Story is she working her job as wedding planner try get an deal of 45k. Ok l say sound real strange when she got stuck at the airport and needed money for renew her visa. It get more strange for me, l told her l will try to send her some, but l notice something wrong here. As l start sending money to her which she was very happy and want to live with me here in Tampa Fl. On Oct 1, 2013 she got in an car accident down there which her doctor contract me on her cell phone which the doctor saw no name but my love on it. I started to cry little but it got worse. Her doctor ask me if l can pay her hospital bills which it was $2481. Like hell lm going to pay that!!! This part is good, she told me that her doctor want $750 and he will let her go home with me. This is where the scam come in, so l start send more money which all add up almost $2480. Sound crazy but really mess my self up real that l lost my car, and trying to save my apt. This is where the scam come in, she just text me about her doctor want all his money but not knowing l just send$491 and last week was $200. So add that up is $691 but if l send $750 her doctor will let her go!!! Then she text me about my account she want so she can pay me back my $2000. Then l knew it was an scam when u ask me my account. Like hell no!!! So as of now she still down and still texting but my apt and car come first. I really learn my mistake real that cost me my car, almost my apt and my credit card

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  35. It has been some time since I wrote this blog, to those who appreciate my trying to.inform everyone put there you're welcome. To those who have the balls to call us stupid fore hoping there's women out there who may want a real relationship, FUCK OFF! You're probably sitting in mommies basement at 40 still jerking off ya pricks so enjoy your pathetic lives gentleman!

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  36. Thanks man hope I can unsubscribe with no problems.

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  37. I also experienced a kind of scam. Every woman that contacted me wanted to have me join their web site claiming it was free. Even those who claimed to be living in my area. Why use a web cam if we can meet within ½-hr? I also found that Rudefinder apparently is linked to JUSTHOOKUP.com

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  38. TO THE SITE FOR PUBLICATION

    INVOLVING GHANA. Having thoughts or doubts about who you are really talking or chatting with (whether he or she is a scammer or not) or you have never set physical eyes on that person(s) before. Internet scam has become very rampant in our today’s world now. Ghana Police Service is now at your door step and herho you are talking, or chatting to whether he or she exists, pertaining to internet dating and business.

    2. We to help you to be very sure about the following;

    1. Whether he or she is a scammer or not.

    3. To help the Republic of Ghana to fight against internet fraud and scam, in other to maintain the good name of the country, Ghana.

    4. Report in other to save other person(s) hard earned money from the scammers and fraudsters that is, not to fall a victim.

    You can contact us by the following email addresses;

    1. sgt.acquah@yahoo.com

    2. Sgt.adjei@gmail.com

    Looking forward to help you in all facet of internet involving a Ghanaian person(s).







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  39. Guys. Ignore the ghana above. He is a scammer also. A good rule of thumb is anybody of authority or from a company wont use one of the free email address like yahoo or gmail. Scammers do because its easy to create, delete and make a newer one afterwards. Be warned scammers use EMOTION as their main tool to sucker people in. Free money or free sex is never free. Seems most of these sex sites are scams interested in lonely, horny mens money only. The rule of thumb us aussies are taught is.. If it sounds too good to be true then it probably is false. I get emails constantly from "women" saying they found me on facebook yet i have no fb account. Others just say they r in town and want to meet. If u try to reply the email bounces back as undeliverable. If u hit the link it takes u to one of the sex scam sites and there are heaps. The only site i have found legit is adultfriendfinder. I actually hooked up with an ugly older female. So b warned. The net is now full of scammers trying to make a quick buck. If in doubt google the site. Thats what i did for this rudefinder and i found this blog. Congrats author for doing the niave people a service.

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